A Matter Of Experience That Those Who Value Others Excessively End Up Being Undervalued Themselves

 When a person diminishes their own worth, the world assigns them the exact value they have set for themselves. Excessive attention, over-the-top leniency, and constantly bending over backwards may appear to be love, but in reality, they disrupt the balance of the relationship. Where balance is lost, respect does not last long either. People often undervalue you not because you lacked worth, but because you failed to clearly define your boundaries, your value, and your limits of tolerance. Anything obtained without conditions, principles, or a price is inevitably perceived as ordinary. Do not expect to be valued in a relationship where you have already erased your own worth; where there are no principles, respect is reduced to the dust beneath one's feet.